It’s a mess. Here i Norway it really is.
I get money from the State, becouse B do not have a dad. But I do not get extra child *something* that every singel mother does, becouse Im married whit L. But L do not get any extra money, becouse she is not B’s parent.. And she does not get leave from her work, like every other parent in these contry.
And I have to meet on a office to sign a paper that says that B do not have a dad. And then we can apply for L to adopt B. But before we get that done, the child welfare has to come to visit us twice, to see that L is a good mother. :/
Hurrayh for Norway. Not.