Hope the meeting was - well, if not ok, then at least productive. A friend of mine had a similar experience (in a different city) and she had no hesitation in pulling her children out and demanding her deposit back. I see her point. I definitely wouldn’t do nothing… ‘this behaviour is not asseptable’. It’s a bit harder if there is a childcare squeeze- it’s bloody hard to get c’care here that works in with our chaotic work schedules, so i know that would definitely temper my approach if this happened to me.
But all courage. Good luck.